Sister, hold on tight because today we're going deep.

We're going to delve into the depths of what you think you want versus what your subconscious wants.

But in order for you to understand that, we need to talk a little about how our mind and our psyche work.

There is a part of us, known by most as EGO.

The ego has a function: to help you survive and reaffirm your identity.

The ego comes to teach us and show us that we are individuals. We could go into much more depth on this point, but for what we're going to talk about today, it's not necessary.

Therefore, based on its function, the ego controls and dominates our lives based on these two principles.

But what does this have to do with WHY YOU KEEP ATTRACTING UNAVAILABLE MEN?

TO HELP YOU SURVIVE:

Our brains largely operate on the same programming as our Stone Age ancestors. Our bodies are constantly on high alert, always ready to fight or flee, focused on only one goal: the continuation of the species. Therefore, all your body wants is for you to find a man with good genes with whom you can have children. Whether this relationship includes emotional security, love, respect, reciprocity, and attention is not necessary for survival.

So this is a VERY, VERY simple explanation of a concept that can actually take years of study.

Now this second part gets very interesting…

REAFFIRM YOUR IDENTITY:

Human beings are very particular…you've probably noticed that by now, right?

In some spiritual communities/philosophies we find the concept that we come into this world to explore and experience duality, to remember what we truly are, one with the cosmos.

If we follow that line of thought, the explanation of why our psyche is so attached to labels, identity, and "who we are" actually makes a lot of sense.

We cling to that identity because it's what we've come to explore. The fact that we are one with the cosmos and that everything is theoretically energy, we already know.

But hey, in this, you choose what you want to believe…So let's get down to business.

When your ego becomes attached to an identity, it means that throughout your life, your unconscious will seek ways to validate who it believes you are.

Carl Jung is probably one of the most renowned exponents of shadow work. If you're part of my School or my programs, you already know how transformative and powerful this work is.

"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate."

Take a breath, read that sentence again…What does it awaken in you?

We're using a real case as a reference; with your permission, I'm going to share the story of one of the women on my team.

She was the second daughter and from a very young age, she felt that her father deep down in his heart wanted a boy.

His father was also a man who traveled a lot for work and was not present for much of his childhood.

She began to take on more masculine roles, seeking her father's approval, doing everything she thought would make him more present in her life and show her more love. But it was never enough.

In her mind, she connected not receiving what she wanted with 1. her gender and 2. the fact that she wasn't enough as she was. So, throughout her life, she sought out situations that would make her feel inadequate, to validate that story/belief that had been ingrained in her psyche since childhood.

Take a deep breath here, let this information sink in, as we're going a little deeper now…

That's what happens on a personal level, with our history and with what happens in the early years of our lives.

And I ask you, does that story about not being enough, or that as a woman you can't have what you want, sound familiar to you?

Here we enter the second level.

One of the reasons why you continue to attract men who are unavailable is that we have collective wounds as women.

Those wounds run deep, from our roots, in each of our ancestors.

Women have been abused, mistreated, and belittled for a large part of our history as human beings.

There are many phenomenal books on that point, so I'm not going to delve too deeply into it.

Our past is full of information at the genetic, cultural, and social levels.

The kind of relationship you seek and long for is a new concept in our society; we've never had access to that kind of relationship before. In fact, when asked, "Is there a relationship in your family where respect, honesty, equality, conscious communication, freedom, and total acceptance of one another prevail? A truly inspiring relationship?" 90% of people answer no.

Obviously, we're creating something new from scratch and there will be resistance.

So why do I keep attracting men who aren't available?

Because you come loaded with information in your subconscious that is doing everything to prevent you from getting what you want.

And can you guess which part of your body somatically registers ALL that information?

YOUR WOMB!

That's why my programs are focused on making our work easier and starting to remove all that stuff that's in our cauldrons through the body.

It's much easier to access the body than the depths of your psyche. That's why many women tell me they've been seeing a psychologist for years, but the results they've had in such a short time with yoni eggs and crystal wands are incredibly impressive!

To access the depths of what is blocking you from creating not only the relationships you seek, but everything you want to manifest in your life, there are no better tools than those that Pachamama gave us.

Black Obsidian is the crystal par excellence for bringing to the surface all that is in the darkness.

Try it yourself and let me know!

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If you feel the calling, there's still time to join our 4-month journey with yoni eggs and crystal wands at Utero org4smic0! If you're not yet sure if it's for you, we're offering a free session through this link to answer all your questions and support you through whatever you're navigating in your life!

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With love and much affection,
Carol